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July 13th, 2010 58 comments /

      在像俺现在的年龄段,一提起“妹妹”就难免会令人联想起孟庭苇的那首《你究竟有几个好妹妹》。不可否认,孟庭苇的甜美歌喉将《你究竟有几个好妹妹》演绎的如痴如醉。这首歌曲讲述的是男女情情爱爱,以至于到最后结果是“为何每个妹妹都嫁给眼泪”,连孟MM最后也只能感叹“我也只是妹妹”。

      记不清小时候哪个时候开始了,村里祖父辈的老人家或者爷爷都曾经说起我父亲养育了两个儿子已经算很出息了,不过要是再能有个女儿那就更完美了,意思也就是说如果我兄弟俩如果能再有个妹妹会更好了。关于这点确实也是,都说了“有女有子才是一个 好”嘛。在当时的农村,哪一家生育个两个、三个甚至四个、五个也都是有的。像其中一个叔叔,养育了一个女儿、三个儿子;邻村的一个同学家,共生了七个女儿、一个儿子,可谓“七星伴月”!对于当时父亲坚持服从计划生育政策(农村可生育两个)的决定,我一直都是打从心里的敬佩。父亲一辈子劳碌,高中毕业就弃学回家耕田,靠自学从一个小小村干部考上了镇上的公务员,一直从基层做起慢慢往上爬。办事员、科员、主管、副职、正职,一点一滴,一个脚印一个脚印的努力着。在他为自己事业努力往上爬的同时,也渐渐的改善了家里的生活环境。从面朝黄土、背顶太阳在田地里劳作到可以坐在舒服的空调办公室里从事案头工作,从农村户口转到城镇户口,从农村平房搬进小楼房,从他高中学历到成就两个儿子念完大学,从当初踩着自行车到后来可以坐着小轿车去上班,所有的一切一切都跟父亲辛劳分不开。直到他重型肝炎晚期住院之前,他还在一直忙碌着。

      作为儿子,我一直认为我是不称职的。学习上,玩世不恭的态度辜负了父亲希望能在学历上更进一步的期望;工作上,不思进取的作风也一直令自己的事业停滞不前;家庭上,并不能很好的扮演一位好丈夫、好父亲的角色,急躁的性格总会做出令自己后悔的举动。父亲是我的好榜样,可惜我从父亲身上学到的东西太少太少。不知觉,父亲已经走了一年多了。追忆父亲,回忆父亲的点点滴滴,再从父亲身上学到更多更多!

      妹妹,父亲的遗憾!父亲,我的遗憾!

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